Self Improvement and Self Development

netboy1 asked:


Hi!!

I’m having a problem with trying out self improvement books or seeking professional help. Most of the times I end up more confused than ever. Each individual has a different idea of what is to lead to “happiness” and “confidence” .

I don’t want to spend my entire life on this. I already spent like 4 years trying to “improve” only to find out I’m as confused or more confused than at the beginning.

Should I just forget about all that and try to enjoy life now even with my limitations and forget about fighting my “shyness” and all that sort of stuff?

thanks!

Jade

Gods Son asked:


Love to read. Always looking for new books. I love books based on self-improvement, hidden historical truths, and mentality books. Some examples are Soul On Ice, Art of War, Democracy Matters. Books specifically targeted towards the urban audience. Any websites or books you all recommend. Even though I am looking for urban based books, anyone can recommend. Some of the most intellectual people that i have ever met were my White college professors that were obsessed with African-American History. Also, even if you have some suggestions on anything outside of that would be great. We all take shorts when one race doesnt know about the other one’s culture, ignorance swoops down like a vulture. God bless

Darnell